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Level 5 · 3–5 min

Ask someone out

A bookstore café on a Sunday afternoon. You've been sharing a table and chatting for a few minutes about the book they're reading.

  • The big ones
  • Open to a chat
  • Boss level
Who you talk to

Your goals

  • Keep the conversation going
  • Find a shared interest
  • Ask them out clearly

Tips before you start

  • Asking someone out is just a clear question. Keep it simple.
  • They can say no. The skill is asking kindly and handling either answer.