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Level 4 · 3–5 min

The quiet one at a networking event

Drinks after the talks at a tech networking event. The person next to you is standing alone, scrolling their phone.

  • Higher stakes
  • Slow to warm up
  • A real stretch

Your goals

  • Find out what he actually works on
  • Get him to open up with a longer answer
  • Leave with a way to follow up

Tips before you start

  • Short answers aren't rejection. He's just not warmed up yet.
  • Specific questions beat general ones.